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1.Be Cool

酷一些

Your confidence is important. You may be a simple house-cat, but what’s so wrong with viewing yourself as a beautifully striped tiger. It’s crazy how the way you view yourself is how people will react to you… well most of them. Some people literally start off their days trying to be a more awesome a**hole than they already are. Don’t settle for that, and don’t dwell on what those people say. You don’t even have to acknowledge their existence. You’re better than that. Create such an aura to yourself that when you step out of your house, you don’t remember to care about negativity. How do you get to this? Good question. That leads me to number two.

你的自信很重要。你可能只是一个宅猫子，但把自己看作一只有着美丽条纹的老虎有什么不好呢。你怎样看待自己，别人就会怎样看待你，好吧只是大多数人这样，这点很疯狂。有些人简直是在尝试着成为一个比他们已经成为的更可怕的深洞开始他们的生活。不要将就那个，不要老是想着那些人说的话。你甚至不必承认他们的存在。你比那要好。为自己创造这样一个氛围，当你走出你的房子，你不会记得去关心消极的事情。如何做到？好问题。看第二件事。

2.Compliment-ary Service

使用赞美

Compliment yourself before you leave the bathroom in the morning. You have to convince yourself before you can try it somewhere else. This worked out well for me during high school, college, and even now. You may not have it all together but people on the outside don’t need to know that. Stop moping around and let them feel as if you are stronger than your situation. Soon after, you’ll start believing it too. When you believe in this, you become it. Also, when you compliment yourself it’s so powerful that people will have a difficult time trying to put you down. If you compliment yourself as part of your daily routine, people can put you down but it won’t sink in as well as your morning message does. Push through the hurt and stick to it. I’m not saying you won’t doubt yourself with all that’s going on but push through it; you have to promulgate an effort.

在早晨离开卫生间之前赞美自己。在你在其它地方尝试这点时，你必须说服自己。这对我来说很好用，无论在高中、大学，甚至现在。你们可能不会一起拥有它，但外面的人不需要知道。不要闷闷不乐，让他们觉得你比你的处境更强壮。不久之后，你会也开始相信它。当你相信这个时，你就变成它。而且，当你称赞自己的时候，它是如此强大，以至于人们很难能试图让你失望。如果你把称赞自己作为日常生活的一部分，人们可以贬低你，但它和你的早晨信息一样不会让你沉沦。冲过伤害并坚持。我不是说你不会怀疑自己做的所有的事情，但你要冲过去；你要投入努力。

3.So Fresh And So Clean

如此清新，如此干净

Hygiene is important. It’s a known fact that when you smell good you feel good. Taking a shower, brushing your teeth, flossing, wearing clean clothes, and using a decent amount of cologne or perfume (please don’t overdo it) will do wonders for you. You’ll be walking somewhere and people will look at you and say “Nice Outfit!” or “You smell amazing!” This will bring one of the greatest feelings on Earth. After all, we are just humans and we love to feel good. What do you know? Those same compliments are opportunities for striking up a conversation which could lead to great friendships. Anything is possible.

卫生是很重要的。当你闻起来很好时，你也会感觉很好，这是一个众所周知的事实。洗澡，刷牙，用牙线洁牙，穿着干净的衣服，并用少量的古龙水或香水（请不要过火）会为你创造奇迹。你会走到某个地方，人们会看着你说“漂亮的衣服！“或””你身上的味道很迷人！”这会带给你人世间较棒的感受之一。毕竟，我们只是人类，我们喜欢感觉良好。你知道吗？那些相同的赞美会有机会建立一个对话，而这又可能会导致巨大的友谊。任何事都是可能的。

4.Smile!

微笑！

For Heaven’s sake would you smile more? Smiles are universal. No matter where you go they mean the same thing. I read an article when I was about 15 that said even faking a smile will release those happy hormones (endorphins). Do you know what that means? Those are the same hormones your body releases when you genuinely smile or laugh. Let that sink in. Your body gives the same reaction for any type of smile – genuine or not. Try this out with strangers. At 23 years old, I am the queen of smiling, and I’m still a people person. What does that tell you? It means that a smile can go a long way. Plus, if it worked for me, it will work for you too. We are no different.

看在老天的份上，你能再多微笑一些吗？卫校很普通。不管你去哪里，它们都意味着同一件事情。在我大约15岁的时候，我读过一篇文章，里面说即使假装微笑也能释放那些快乐地激素（内啡肽）。你知道这意味着什么吗？当你真正的微笑或大笑时，你的身体会释放相同的激素。要完全了解这点。你的身体会对任何类型的微笑给出相同的反映—不管真诚与否。试着对陌生人微笑。在23岁的时候，我是微笑女王，并且我仍是一个善于交际的人。这告诉你什么？它意味着微笑会对你大有帮助。还有，如果它适用于我，它也会适用于你。我们没有区别。

5. Live To Please

活着是为了开心

You are not a shadow or a bean bag, so don’t settle for people trying to steal your shine or sit on you. You have needs, but don’t turn your needs and wants to desperation. THAT’S A DEAD END! Keep trying until you get the results you want. Better yet, don’t be afraid to reach out to me. I care deeply about people and who they view themselves as. I appreciate you and you should appreciate yourself too.

你不是一处阴影或一个豆袋椅，所以不要讲究那些试图窃取你的光芒或坐在你身上的人。你有需求，但不要将你的需求翻转过来，变得绝望。那是个死胡同！不断尝试直到你得到你想要的结果。更好的是，不要害怕联系我。我很关心别人以及他们是如何看待自己的。我欣赏你，你也应该欣赏自己。

6. Expect The Best

期待较好

Expect that people will like you for you. If it doesn’t happen immediately, keep expecting. You should wake up in the mornings, go throughout the day, and go to bed expecting. I cannot stress it enough. It can be overbearing at times, and you will face disappointments, but that’s life. We shall move pass that. Everything needs balance. Without bad, we wouldn’t know what is good, so keep keeping on and expect more for yourself.

期待人们会为你而喜欢你。如果这并没有马上发生，那保持期待。你应该期待着在早晨醒来，度过，去睡觉。这点无论如何强调都不够。有时候这会显得专横，而你会面对失望，但这就是生活。我们应该度过这。每样东西都需要平衡。没有不好，我们也不会知道什么是好，所以保持为自己继续期待更多。

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